Answering quesition about comparing bodies.

"I'm always comparing my body to other girls, whether they have a similar body type or not, and it always makes me feel like crap because it makes me feel like a failure and I start thinking that I need to change myself. I don't know whether to strive to stay skinny or just be fine with the little curves that I have. How do I stop comparing my body to others? "

I don't stop it, I just compare my self with curvy women instead of the skinny ones I compared myself with before. I want recovery now and that is why I look for the pretty in healthy, natural bodies.

I once heared a really old woman comparing her body with teenage models and complaining she was fat. How sick is that? Compare to something similar to your own body, please! I find it easier to accept my body if I see beautiful actresses or what ever have about similar bodies as me. It's not that "the skinnier the prettier". Really not. Many look better when they are not starving.

I want to see more bellies with fat. The insunken stomaches are depressing to watch. And I will rather feel sorry for a skinny girl that are not free, are starving and may die any moment than feel bad about the fat on my body. That fat protects my life and give me energy to be happy. Fat is a hormone producing organ, not garbage.