Some parents perceive their children mostly as burdons. The consequence from that is that the children will be exactly that, appearently, because and when they protest against the attitude and actions the parents show because of their negative perception they will be perceived as a burdon. Those parents that perceive their children as a gift, on the other hand, will encourage their children so their qualities will grow and show. Parents who want to believe their children is basically good will find that it is true when encouraging their children to show goodness, and those who believe human beings are basically selfish will in lack of hope for something better just perceive selfishness.
if you go around thinking you are a burdon because you have been treated like one you may be exsactly that for people when you need the extra approval, or you avoid people because you don't want to be a burdon. If you think you are a gift you will give much good to people.
if you go around thinking you are a burdon because you have been treated like one you may be exsactly that for people when you need the extra approval, or you avoid people because you don't want to be a burdon. If you think you are a gift you will give much good to people.
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