I gave up the fight.

It is a relief to let go, but to let go of fighting is not a defeat. It is to realise I don't have to fight to get what I need. I already have it inside of me. All along I wanted to draw other peoples attention to behind the surface, but to manipulate the surface never did that. It is not a defeat to give up doing it when one no longer need those others to be able to focus there oneself. To give up the fight is to stop the war against the needs of the body and me and choose acceptance of those needs. To stop the fight is to cooperate with the body. The body was never the enemy. The unaccepting view was. It is to choose love and health instead of fear and destructive behaviour that ruins health. It is to accept all kinds of bodies and flaws, it is to focus on the positive aspects of bodies and everything else. It is to stop trying to change an already brilliant creation. We have experienced it can not be changed long term anyway. It will always try to bounce back to fit its design.I wanted to be seen behind the surface because I value what is there and want to explore it. When I find other people and ways to do so and finds ways to deal with those who only focus on the surface of things, who are negative, critical and judgemental I found space to let go of trying to avoid comments from those who focus on the surface of things by manipulating my body. Those who are negative and critical will see negative aspects even in the most beautiful creation anyway. They can not be pleased. It will take a life time trying to and one is bound to fail.

We must take responsibility for our own recovery and well being. We must provide love for ourselves. Stop hoping to get it from someone who does not have it. We need to be loved to love. And then we can love those who can not love so they learn how to. My journey began when I prayed to God and discovered that for me to be able to connect I had to roll over the big stone in my heart. God is ready to heal when ever we are ready for it. I was desperately fighting to get love. I can love now. I can love my body, myself and those who "should have" loved me when I was small and needy. Turns out they don't even take themselves seriously. They don't even love themselves. They don't even have any insight in themselves. I gave up fighting because I have "won" what I was fighting for, but from the source of it, not blocked channels for it. Everyone can receive the potion they are receptive for from God. No need to fight because there is no competition or conditions. Just be like an open minded trusting kid.