I am almost there now. I am almost fully recovered.

I am not authentic when I act according to my ED voice and because having an ED means I act out of fear and that is really nothing to write home to heaven about. I have finally managed to break the spell and understood all the reasons why I have had an ED and what has kept me having one. My ED voice is a congIomerate of strong impressions I have got from people that has hurt and "made me" fearful. To avoid more bad experiences from such (selfish, shallow) people I have followed a set of rules. But neither those rules or anything else can hinder people to be assholes and as long as I fear these people I become like them. Focusing on appearance even though I hated that they did it! I choose health over appearance and love over fear now and I am out of the ED grip. Instead of ignoring or fear hunger when I feel hunger I think the body needs food and eat. Instead of getting stressed because I have no energy to be active I rest and remind myself I will get energy to be active later. I make sure to eat enough in the evening so the body has fuel to repair/heal during the night which is the time most of the healing is done. I don't fear that I will gain weight because it only happens if the body really needs to.

I am at a normal BMI now, but it is ok. I was thinking: Who am I to think I can change what God created? Do I think God did a bad job? Do I really think I can make it better? It will just force itself back to what it genetically is designed for anyway. What a stupid occupation trying to change an already good design just because my stupid parents and a lot of others in our society has a distorted, disrespectful and vain view on the body. Just because they are obsessed with appearance and can not see beyond it doesn't mean I should be like them. My mum is 86 years old now and told me yesterday she weighed only 38 kg. I have pushed her to eat more, but she always says that if she eats more it will get on her tummy. She is the eating disorder voice in my head with all the stupid rules. So no, I am getting free from the destructive rules and ideas she fed me. I will be supportive to every body, every mind, every heart. If someone stops liking me because I am at a normal weight it is probably just my mum and dad. I could not deal with that rejection earlier because I was in need of love they never gave me, but now I have found love from within and from others and find they need me more than I need them, because I have the love they never had for themselves.